Monthly Archive for February, 2007

financially responsible (part 1)

I’ve joined the ranks of the working world for the sixth month running now, and it’s been a relatively smooth journey. There’s just so many things to thank God for, especially in the area of finance. God’s been blessing me in ways many might not see as blessings, but deep down .. I know I can never do it without Him. And now, because of all that He has taught me [and still teaching] I am able to look forward with confidence knowing that I can do all things through Christ.

I’ve always been known as the spend-thrift of the family. Well, in a more apparent manner .. really. All throughout college and university, my dad lectured me every single time I asked him for money. He’d ask me why I ran out of money before the month end, and I’d be able to come up with some reason .. somehow or rather. So yes, I was never the thrifty son. Although, I will not fail to mention that all my purchases were well thought of and given careful consideration. Usually, they last me for a few years. Like my .. hmm .. shoes? :p

But when I started working, God placed within my heart the desire to be prudent when it comes to my finances. Of course, everyone around me encouraged me to practice it, so I started tracking my expenditure. Daily expenses, food, drinks, gifts, Darlie toothpaste, every single thing la. Of course, I don’t go down to the cents .. but only to the dollar. After a few months of .. religiously [for the lack of a better word] keying in every single entry at night just before I sleep, I get a good overview of my income and .. expenses. And so far, save for December .. I’ve been in the black. December was red, cause I spent more than I earned. Which later, was compensated by scrimping on lavish dining to satisfy the high class black hole in my stomach.

Every month, I know where I am in my spending .. with a budget I outlined with Microsoft Money in which I also utilize to key in my daily expenses. This software provides me with visual and outlined report of my spending, income, cashflow, and whatnots that I have not fully explored .. which makes the whole experience … fun! I’m sure those who struggle to keep track of your monthly expenses blame it on the lack of a GUI or comprehensive eye-candy to help you along.. Hehe.

Even though it’s just an apparently insignificant thing to do, recording every single expense somewhere, be it to a software or spreadsheet .. it helps tremendously. I am extra conscious with my money, when I am nearing the budgeted limit for the month. Of course, I think that the amount set apart for makan could be lower .. *cough* but anyway .. it’s all for the good of .. me. Ahaha. The straightforward monthly comparison of income VS expenses outrightly present the amount I have saved for that particular month, breakdowns of every single category shows me where my money goes .. be it to the petrol the car drinks, or to the food the black hole .. consumes.

I can’t stress enough about this issue of financial responsibility, especially those who are already living out on their own .. away from the comfort and security of their parents. Financial comfort and security. I am beginning to see how it will help me in the future, in which I will talk about .. in part 2!

So, till then .. stay tuned.

David[hmm]

PS: Pardon me for not updating. Just realized that the last entry was .. about 9 days ago.

extra measure of wisdom

God has bestowed upon me the extra measure of wisdom in the form of a …

tooth. THE wisdom tooth.

It’s coming out, and there’s no stopping it!

Swell.

Swell, cause it had to be close to CNY .. where all the good food’s gonna be served.

Swell, cause my work involves talking .. most of the working day.

Swell, my cheek and gums.

Swell.

Pray for me. I can’t eat properly, hence the lack of energy .. cause it takes so much energy to eat! And the fact that I have to eat a lot doesn’t help. Eat more = more energy = less energy. Go figure.

David[hmm]

Valentine’s

Liam Heart Bubbles

It’s gonna be V-day in a couple of days, and I thought the Liam icon was pretty cute. I’m still an avid supporter of Gmail, but Liam’s very cute.

Anyhow, in the hype of the season .. I think it’ll be great to show appreciation to those who won’t receive any gifts, or be lavished with love and affection. So, here’s an image dedicated to all of you who are single, and enjoying it!

Valentine, 2007

David[lovess!]

why some girls are so different…

It is when they have opinions, and they have fun expressing them!

Oh .. bliss. Bliss bliss bliss.

David[hmm]

[WTB] Satria GTi 1.8

Hey, if any of you know of any aunty or uncle driving a Satria GTi 1.8 who wants to sell their car, please let me know, okay? I’m interested in getting one.

Can contact me at 016 238 1778.

Thanks.

David[hmm]

PS : If you could pass the word around, it’ll be great too!

with good company…

… food’s always secondary.

David[hmm]

Convocation, Nikko Hotel 11th February @ 2pm

My dad called me yesterday night, while I was driving round surveying one of the places I might suggest for dinner on Thursday night.

He said that they’re coming down on Friday. At first, I thought .. “For what? What’s the occasion?” He reminded me that the convocation is this Sunday. Gosh. I didn’t even realize that it was this weekend. Good thing Athalia’s cell outing to Chamang was postponed till after CNY. My oh my.

Thinking of the convocation .. I think it’s gonna be a boring ceremony. Boring boring boring! Good thing is that there’ll be a buffet with tea and coffee after the convo. Maybe that’ll be of some consolation for the RM180 I paid for my parents’ seats. GArgh.

Anyway, the purpose of this entry is firstly .. that I will remember what time to be there … which is at 12pm where the registration will be open. Secondly, is for all you out there who have absolutely nothing to do on Sunday .. and want to take a drive down to KL for a nice scenic tour of cars and buildings .. You could come visit me in my robe, and grab a few proud pictures of yourself standing beside a hanger draped with a curtain. Come at 3 .. ya? Ceremony’s gonna be an hour long!

Zzzzz.

David[hmm]

italian? chinese? japanese? fusion?

Ah, just to whet the appetite and curiosity of all you out there .. dinner’s set on Thursday. I’ve always known that Italian food always work, but hey .. I’m being open to suggestions. If you have one, drop a comment.

Till then, here’s something from Stacey Kent. Enjoy.

David[hmm]

weekends, how quickly they pass by…

Oh how quickly the weekends pass. But I thank God that this one didn’t go by unfruitfully. Friday, I found out that there was some sort of bonus that came together with last month’s pay, so I was overjoyed. Almost naturally, I began forming thoughts/plans on how to spend it! After deliberating for some time, I set those plans aside .. and just went what women just love to do.

Shopping.

I went to 1Utama on Saturday morning, and I bought myself a work shirt, and 2 pairs of trousers; the shirt’s from Seed, a pair from Soda and a pair of bootcut jeans. Oh, and a belt to hold it all together. Here’s the breakdown ..

Shirt - RM54
Soda - RM25
Jeans - RM73
Belt - RM54

Call me splurger, but I think my wardrobe needs extensive work. And the expensive .. whoops .. extensive work has begun. The pair of Soda pants was a STEAL! It was so cheap. I might just go grab another pair of another colour, if I ever find myself in 1U for whatever reason. And it fits really well. It portrays a mature look, and it add the “smart casual” into my arsenal of looks. The fit helps show off some ASSets, finally .. if you ever decide to look. I wouldn’t mind. *wink

Shopping really is … therapeutic.

Weekend services were pretty taxing, but it’s all good.

Janae and Nathaniel sure grow up quick. Nigel & Yvonne, Daniel & Adeline sure are proud parents. Beautiful kids.

January has been a long month. Praise God, I’ve been able to hit my target again .. but I sure hope to prove the industry’s trend wrong .. by making money during CNY month of February where .. no one really works. That’ll be a good testament to my performance .. and hopefully, it’ll convert to a big fat bonus at the end of financial year, come 31st March.

I cry out to the LORD with my voice;
With my voice to the LORD I make my supplication.
I pour out my complaint before Him;
I declare before Him my trouble.

When my spirit was overwhelmed within me,
Then You knew my path.
In the way in which I walk
They have secretly set a snare for me.
Look on my right hand and see,
For there is no one who acknowledges me;
Refuge has failed me;
No one cares for my soul.

I cried out to You, O LORD:
I said, “You are my refuge,
My portion in the land of the living.
Attend to my cry,
For I am brought very low;
Deliver me from my persecutors,
For they are stronger than I.
Bring my soul out of prison,
That I may praise Your name;
The righteous shall surround me,
For You shall deal bountifully with me.”

Psalm 142

Today, I read this Psalm .. which really helped me identify what I was going through .. these couple of days. I’m hoping to draw strength from how David finally cried out to God .. proclaming that God’s his refuge, and diverts everything back to God. Those times when he felt like he was not cared for, or when everything seemed like it was against him .. I kinda felt that way .. but I am slowly convinced that God’s the only justification of my actions.

And on that note, I’m ready for February. Irregardless of whether I feel or do not feel adequate.

God, You are my shepherd, and I shall never be in want. Thank You Lord.

David[hmm]

inadequacy complex

It’s quite a surprise. I was just driving home earlier, and I suddenly felt a sinking feeling. A thought that really made me reflect on the way I have perceived myself as, these recent years. The impressions that I had of my character, abilities, capacity, potential, attitude .. has just turned to the other extreme. I feel as though there’s nothing really special about who or what I am.

I for certain, and according to some around me, have not been of best friends to the people around me, I have no looks to show for, my heart’s full of deceit, my life isn’t accomplishing great and mighty things, be it for God .. or myself, I have no qualities of which stand out enough to set me apart, no likeable characteristics. No pride in accomplishment, no aptitude.

Inadequacy overwhelms my desire to do the things that I want, to reach for the things that I desire in my heart to have, to dream success in whatever areas I desire to be successful in. It especially overtakes my thoughts of how people view me.

It feels like I’m .. dispensable. I suppose I should be, because no one shouldn’t. But there’s no helping it, I suppose.

Maybe I’m scrutinizing the wrong things. Maybe I’m not in the best state of mind but .. still doesn’t change the fact that I feel this way.

*exhales

Why Lord?

David[hmm]